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08: Still on friendship?

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Another post on friendship? Friendship? Can’t you praise God? Can’t you talk realities things? Photo credits: Maria Loznevaya Source: pexels.com I don’t hate change, and I don’t hate things evolving into something else.  I don’t deal well with change, though. I don’t do well with the things that can disrupt my being and shake me to my core. I don’t like losing systems that I have built, and I don’t like being pushed to my wit’s end. I hate taking the last resort. I hate contingency plans. But I allow them to happen because what can I do or say about that? On Vulnerability. That’s what we’re here for. Fuck the shallow waters; immerse yourself. In your people and in your God. Mofiyinfoluwa Okupe Vulnerare - to wound . I used to be scared of vulnerability—scared of baring myself to others because of the likelihood of being misunderstood or abandoned by them. I have been hurt by the few people I tried being vulnerable with and that sort of pushed me further into myself. Lately, I find it d